I told Mike that under the circumstances, I would not be able to continue training. He was upset because he would have to find new clients. Since that time, I have been going to the gym daily. Whenever I see Mike, he ignores me.

This hurts my feelings. Other trainers have offered their condolences about my job loss and have steered me toward free or low-cost programs. I want to address this issue with Mike but don't know if I should.

Dear Jilted: Unfortunately, "Mike" not only lost a former big-ticket customer but also a potential big-ticket customer (presumably, you will work again soon and look for a new trainer). Jilting you was not only bad manners but also bad business. Please don't say that you miss his friendship. If he missed yours, he would be cordial to you. I'd think that at $1,200 a month, he would even figure out how to fake it.

Dear Amy: "Worried in Wyoming," worried that her friends would bring their dog on a visit of several days' duration. Pet owners have a responsibility to inquire whether their dogs are welcome on visits.

Though I am the "mother" of three wonderful large dogs and a lover of animals in general, my husband and I know others don't share our feelings. I could not imagine taking our babies on a visit without first asking whether they're welcome.

Dear Animal Lover: You have the perfect attitude. But when owners don't ask whether their pets are welcome visitors, homeowners should clarify their position on pets-as-guests.

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