There is a huge divide between what goes on in your head and what happens in your hands and pants. You need to figure out why boyfriend being aroused by other women—especially dames on TV that he'll never ever meet!—freaks you out so much. Are you worried the ladies of porn are hotter than you? That if he sees a woman with a bigger rack, flatter tummy, or more bodacious booty, he's going to ditch you because you're somehow lacking? I'm sure he's got a few shortcomings in the bod department—don't you overlook them?

There is always going to be someone better looking, smarter, funnier, blonder, or more whatever than you. However, the same goes for him. Finding other people attractive—no matter how in love you are—is normal. Acting on it is when it becomes problematic, but it doesn't sound like he's done that. You can't let it make you nuts. You say you have no relationship models except what you've seen on TV (please tell me you're not watching the Bobbie Brown show!), so maybe this is something you want to discuss with a licensed professional. Really. I'd hate to see you screw up what sounds like a good thing.

As far as bachelor parties go, I'm a fairly easygoing lady, and even I think bachelor parties are bullshit. The practice of celebrating one's impending nuptials by having a strange naked lady rub up against you and your drunkypants friends? That's like me celebrating my birthday by clawing my own eye out—does not compute. You are far from alone in being infuriated by this retarded ritual. It's up to you to determine what your boundaries are; mine are look, but your testicles are mine if you dare touch.

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